Alexandra spent most of her childhood at her family's country house, Coppins, in Buckinghamshire. During the Second World War she also lived at Badminton with her widowed grandmother Queen Mary. Her father was killed in an aeroplane crash in Caithness, Scotland, on 25 August 1942 whilst serving in the Royal Air Force. Alexandra has the distinction of being the first British princess to have attended a boarding school, Heathfield School near Ascot. She later studied in Paris, and received training at Great Ormond Street Hospital.
On 24 April 1963, Alexandra married The Hon. Angus James Bruce Ogilvy (1928–2004), the second son of David Ogilvy, 12th Earl of Airlie, and Lady Alexandra Coke, at Westminster Abbey. Ogilvy presented Alexandra with an engagement ring made of a cabochonsapphire set in gold and surrounded by diamonds on both sides. The wedding ceremony was attended by the royal family and was broadcast worldwide on television, watched by an estimated 200 million people.
The bride wore a wedding gown of Valenciennes lace, with matching veil and train, designed by John Cavanagh. Alexandra travelled with her brother, the Duke of Kent, from Kensington Palace to Westminster Abbey. The bridesmaids included Princess Anne and Archduchess Elisabeth of Austria, and the best man was Peregrine Fairfax. The Archbishop of Canterbury, Michael Ramsey, conducted the service. Ogilvy declined the Queen's offer to be created an earl upon marriage, so the couple's children carry no titles.
Ogilvy was knighted in 1988 (when Alexandra assumed the style of The Hon. Lady Ogilvy), and was sworn of the Privy Council in 1997. Alexandra and Ogilvy had two children:
Flora Vesterberg (née Ogilvy; born 15 December 1994 in Edinburgh, Scotland) who studied History of Arts at the University of Bristol and has a master's degree from the Courtauld Institute of Arts: she runs a contemporary art agency. She married Swedish financier Timothy Vesterberg at Chapel Royal, St. James's Palace, on 26 September 2020 and they renewed their vows the following year. She was diagnosed with autism in 2025. The couple have one child.
Isabel Marina Vesterberg (born 8 July 2026)
Alexander Charles Ogilvy (born 12 November 1996 in Edinburgh, Scotland) who attended Brown University in Providence, Rhode Island. He attended Sandhurst and was commissioned a second lieutenant in Blues and Royals (Royal Horse Guards and 1st Dragoons) in August 2025.
Marina Victoria Alexandra Ogilvy (born 31 July 1966 in Thatched House Lodge, Richmond Park, Surrey). She married Paul Julian Mowatt (Hendon, 28 November 1962) on 2 February 1990; they divorced on 15 October 1997. They have two children.
Zenouska May Mowatt (born 26 May 1990)
Christian Alexander Ogilvy (born 4 June 1993)
Marina's first pregnancy, announced in late 1989, caused controversy as the couple were not married. The situation led to a feud with her parents, who suggested that Marina either marry her companion in a shotgun wedding or have an abortion. In an interview with a tabloid at the time, Marina claimed that her parents had cut off her trust fund and monthly allowance due to their disapproval of her conduct. She also said that she wrote a letter to Queen Elizabeth II, addressing her "Dear Cousin Lilibet", asking the Queen to intervene in the family dispute. Marina's parents denied her allegations, stating that they loved her, had not cut her off, and that she was welcome at home at any time.
Activities
Princess Alexandra on her tour of Australia in 1959
Beginning in the late 1950s, Alexandra undertook an extensive programme of engagements in support of the Queen, both in the United Kingdom and overseas. Taking part in roughly 120 engagements each year, she became one of the most active members of the royal family. She carried out 110 engagements in 2012, but in April 2013 she cancelled her programme due to polymyalgia rheumatica. As of 2022, she remained listed as a working member of the royal family, attending numerous ceremonial and charitable engagements.
Princess Alexandra of Kent on a visit to the Netherlands in June 1961
In 1959, she undertook a major tour of Australia and attended the Queensland Centenary Celebrations. The "Alexandra Waltz" was composed for the visit by radio announcer Russ Tyson and television musical director Clyde Collins, and was sung for the princess by the teenage Gay Kahler, who later performed under the name Gay Kayler. In 1961, Alexandra visited Hong Kong, including stops at Aberdeen Fish Market, Lok Ma Chau police station, and So Uk Estate, a public housing complex. She returned to Australia in 1967 for a private holiday, during which she also carried out engagements in Canberra and Melbourne. The Princess Alexandra Hospital in Brisbane is named in her honour.
Alexandra represented Queen Elizabeth II, on 1 October 1960 when Nigeria gained independence from the United Kingdom , and she opened Nigeria's first Parliament on 3 October. Later overseas tours included visits to Canada, Italy, Oman, Hungary, Norway, Japan, Thailand, Gibraltar, and the Falkland Islands. In 1965, she launched the New Zealand Leander-class frigate HMNZS Waikato at Harland and Wolff in Belfast, Northern Ireland. She opened the Victoria-to-Brixton section of London Underground's Victoria line on 23 July 1971. In May 1973, she presented the Scottish Cup to Rangers following the 1973 Scottish Cup Final. She again represented the Queen at the celebrations marking Saint Lucia's independence from the UK in 1979.
Alexandra opened the new hospital in Harlow, Essex, named in her honour, on 27 April 1965. The Princess Alexandra Hospital NHS Trust was announced by the Prime Minister, Boris Johnson, in September 2019 as part of the government's new health infrastructure programme to build a replacement hospital.
Until its abolition in 2013, she received £225,000 per year from the Civil List to cover the cost of official expenses, although, as with other members of the royal family (except the Duke of Edinburgh), the Queen repaid this amount to HM Treasury. Alexandra lives at Thatched House Lodge in Richmond, London, a Crown property purchased on a 150-year lease from the Crown Estate Commissioners by Angus Ogilvy after their wedding in 1963. She also has the use of a grace-and-favour apartment at St James's Palace.
In May 2023, she appeared alongside other working members of the royal family in photographs taken in the Throne Room and on the Buckingham Palace balcony following the coronation of King Charles III, which she had attended earlier that day. In February 2024, she began using a wheelchair and attended a thanksgiving service for Constantine II of Greece later that month. In June 2025, she joined King Charles for a church service in the Queen's Chapel in London, sitting beside the King to mark the chapel's 400th anniversary celebration. In April 2026, Alexandra attended a commemorative reception held to mark the centenary of Queen Elizabeth II's birth, continuing to be a working member of the British royal family.
Titles, styles, honours and arms
Alexandra's monogram
Titles and styles
Alexandra is often referred to simply as Her Royal Highness Princess Alexandra. She has held the following styles officially:
Her Royal Highness Princess Alexandra of Kent
Her Royal Highness Princess Alexandra, The Honourable Mrs Angus Ogilvy
Her Royal Highness Princess Alexandra, The Honourable Lady Ogilvy
As a descendant of George V, Princess Alexandra's arms are based on the Royal Arms. The following explains the way in which her arms are differenced from those of the monarch.
Adopted
1961
Coronet
Coronet of a Grandchild of the Sovereign
Crest
On the coronet of children of other sons of the Sovereign, composed of four crosses-pattées alternated with four strawberry leaves a lion statant guardant or, crowned with the like coronet and differenced with a label as in the Arms.
Escutcheon
The Royal Arms differenced with a five-point label—the standard differentiation for a male-line grandchild of a British Monarch. The first and fifth points bear a heart gules, the second and fourth points bear an anchor azure, and the third point bears a cross gules.
Supporters
The Royal Supporters differenced with the like coronet and label.
Orders
The Order of the Garter circlet. HONI SOIT QUI MAL Y PENSE (Shame be to him who thinks evil of it)
Since Princess Alexandra's mother was a first cousin of Prince Philip, Duke of Edinburgh, she is a second cousin to King Charles III and his siblings, in addition to being their first cousin once removed because her father was Queen Elizabeth II's uncle.
↑The original announcement made regarding her appointment in 2003 describes her as a "Lady Companion of the Most Noble Order of the Garter", but her official biography states that she was "made a Knight of the Order of the Garter (KG) in 2003".
↑"Royal baby for leap year day". BBC News. 29 February 1964. Retrieved 8 March 2008. The Ogilvy baby was one of several royal babies due within months of each other. The 9lb 6oz boy will be unique among them in having no title. Master Ogilvy is currently 13th in line to the throne but will soon be displaced to 16th
↑"HRH Princess Alexandra (b.1936), GCVO, in Evening Dress". Art UK. 1960. Retrieved 24 March 2018. The painting is on display in the Alexandra Room in the Royal College of Physicians and Surgeons of Glasgow (Princess Alexandra became an Honorary Fellow in 1960).
↑"Who we are". CFAB. Retrieved 25 March 2018. HRH Princess Alexandra has been CFAB's Royal Patron since 2000. She was preceded by her sister-in-law HRH The Duchess of Kent, ...
↑"Knights of the Orders of Chivalry". Debrett's. Archived from the original on 17 December 2011. Retrieved 5 March 2012. Although HRH The Princess Royal and HRH Princess Alexandra, the Hon Lady Ogilvy, are both female they are actually included with the Royal Knights Companions and they bear the post-nominal letters KG (not LG)
↑Mosley, Charles (1999). Burke's Peerage and Baronetage, 106th edition, volume 1. Crans, Switzerland: Burke's Peerage Limited. p.46.
Bibliography
Collis, Rose (2010). The New Encyclopaedia of Brighton. (based on the original by Tim Carder) (1sted.). Brighton: Brighton & Hove Libraries. ISBN978-0-9564664-0-2.
Panton, Kenneth J. (2011). Historical Dictionary of the British Monarchy. Scarecrow Press, Inc. ISBN978-0-8108-5779-7.
The generations indicate descent from George I, who formalised the use of the titles prince and princess for members of the British royal family. Where a princess may have been or is descended from George I more than once, her most senior descent, by which she bore or bears her title, is used.